tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1677341118204306793.post245752073576453470..comments2023-11-02T03:52:58.446-07:00Comments on TransMarried: Transgender Couple, married and happy about it: I'm in loveJonni Pettithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12336270784796571021noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1677341118204306793.post-88248450213951951092008-08-30T18:57:00.000-07:002008-08-30T18:57:00.000-07:00My husband is in transition and we are in love, bu...My husband is in transition and we are in love, but the stress is killing us. My 12 year old is not being allowed to play with her friends by their parents. My 18 year old is having anxiety attacks. My 28 year old son and his 25 year old sister got into an arguement with my spouse a few weeks ago and said some pretty nasty things and my spouse pushed my son's shoulder, who went and took a warrant out on him for assault. He was arrested, humiliated, they took all of his money for bail and he had to walk home in the rain because his car and phone were at the house. My spouse has large breasts now and has had FFS, but not SRS yet. Is scheduled in December, so she is treated as a male by the law. We have all been supeonaed to court on Sept 3. I will not go. I can not be forced to choose between my son and my spouse, both of whom I love, but the stress of it all is causing physical pain and intense emotional strain. My spouse spent all morning crying and my stomach is in knots. My older son told me someone came into where he works and asked if he was (his name), my spouse's stepson. He said yes, and the guy said he was associated with the KKK and they planned to burn our house down as long as my husband remains in it. He was warning my son, because he didn't want for the little girl (our 12 year old daughter) to get hurt, but if she did, she did. The older children are my spouses stepchildren and the younger one ours. When transition first began, he promised never to do anything to hurt us, now he doesn't care who sees him out in public in female dress. He wants to be percieved as female, but in a small town....you get ostracized and hated. Any advice?Spouseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13597904142469857660noreply@blogger.com